Reclaim
You
Healing after narcissistic abuse
Online Summit · October 23 - 25, 2023
Get your life back.
Reclaim You is a free 3-day healing summit to help you reclaim your life, voice, and power after narcissistic abuse.
Who is this summit for?
Do any of these questions resonate with you?
Ready to move out of the narcissistic dynamic and into a place of peace and calm?
After years of not knowing, do you yearn to find your true, authentic self?
Wanting to move from soul-sucking to life-giving relationships (with others AND yourself)?
Wanting practical advice and steps forward to help you heal?
Looking to let go of guilt and shame around what you've been through?
How can this summit help?
We designed this summit to be a curation of some of the most healing practices and ways forward we have to share. Each of us has our own experience and approaches to healing – which gives you an amazing opportunity to sample our different styles and to find ones that resonate with you. There is so much valuable information and support contained within each of the talks we will be sharing. Each one alone has the capacity to radically change the way you feel and live your life.
Exploring 20+ Topics Including:
Boundaries – how to actually do them!
Family estrangement
Speaking your truth
Regulating your nervous system
Healing Complex PTSD
How to be your authentic self
Reparenting Yourself and becoming who you needed when you were younger
Healing your inner child
What it means to love yourself and how to do it
Evolving into who you want to become
Meet the Speakers
Reclaim You is a collective of deeply experienced, devoted and renowned coaches, therapists, authors, and healers from around the world. Each contributor specializes in different modalities and approaches to help you recover, heal and live truly free after being in a narcissistic dynamic. Many are names you will have encountered already, and all of them have deep experience and a love of helping to guide and liberate others.
Each speaker will offer guidance and inspiration for anyone who has been through the devastating and life altering experience of narcissistic abuse. Through deeply honest and loving approaches they will help you remember, explore, and create who you really are, take back your own power and find trust, peace and hope in life again.
Lisa A. Romano
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Lisa A. Romano is a Life Coach and Bestselling Author who specializes in Codependency and Narcissistic Abuse. She is the creator of The 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program. Lisa has a number of different online coaching programs that allow people to learn how to heal themselves of faulty childhood programming. Lisa helps her clients understand the power of the subconscious mind, when activated through higher consciousness which gives rise to greater understanding of the ability to love the self completely.
Adriana Bucci
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After nearly 3 decades of enduring narcissistic abuse and 4 years of severe chronic pain, I made the choice to embark on my own healing journey. Doing my inner work not only helped me heal from the physical pain I went through, it also helped me heal from the childhood trauma of being raised by a narcissistic mother, (which set me up to have many other narcissistic relationships throughout my life). My healing journey inspired me to get certified as a trauma-informed life coach so I could help other people. My goal is to empower survivors of narcissistic abuse to heal, set boundaries, and live life on their own terms!
Theresa Lopez
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Theresa Lopez is a licensed MFT and the founder and president of Joytree Clinical Counseling in Claremont, California. Theresa has been practicing since 2015 and has a master's degree from the University of La Verne. She is a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional and has attended 8 years of Gestalt training from Bob and Rita Resnick at the Gestalt Associates Training Los Angeles (GATLA). Theresa specializes in narcissistic abuse recovery and trauma therapy using Eye Movement Desensitizing Reprocessing (EMDR), Brainspotting, and inner child/parts work. Theresa’s approach is grounded in Gestalt theory which focuses on the client’s here-and-now experiences to increase self-awareness.
Renee Fleming
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As a “wounded healer” Renee experienced the abuse & neglect common amongst CPTSD survivors. Her family of origin included active addiction & narcissism. Despite her intention to rise above the family drama Renee found herself experiencing secondary adult trauma in love & at work, leaving her with the kind of stories “you just can’t make up”. This trifecta of NPD abuse accelerated her own healing journey. Renee is passionate about shortening the learning curve for others. Renee believes that moving from https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/resetwithreneevictim/survivor to posttraumatic growth & thriving is possible & she supports people through that process.
Erin Watson, Ph.D.
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Erin is a trauma and burnout specialist who helps people recover from covert narcissistic and family scapegoating abuse. She has a doctoral degree in family dynamics and a clinical background helping people reclaim their lives, identity, confidence, and independence after relational trauma. She is a sought after speaker, educator, coach, and author with a special interest in the betrayal traumas, moral injury, complex grief, and injustice of what she calls Narcissistic System Abuse. Erin has 20+ years experience helping people move beyond the limiting legacies of attachment/abandonment trauma, parental wounding, and family estrangement/ejection. Erin’s coaching program, From Toxicity To Triumph, helps people who are ready for genuine joy, fulfillment, and wholeness after having suffered narcissistic and scapegoating abuse.
Danu Morrigan
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Danu has been learning and sharing about the topic of narcissistic mothers since 2008. Her mission is to empower DONMs to live their own best lives despite their mother’s best efforts. She lives in Ireland and is the author of 3 books on the topic of narcissistic mothers, with another to be published in Spring 2024, and is working on yet another one.
Katherine Fabrizio
Nadia Ahrens
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Nadia Ahrens is a psychotherapist, spiritual life coach, and hypnotherapist. She has been helping empaths navigate traumas & challenges for over 20 years guiding them on a spiritual journey and helping them discover their soul's purpose. Using a blend of clinical expertise with healing modalities such as hypnotherapy, soul work, and the chakra system, she helps empaths turn their wounds into wisdom so they can live empowered, authentic lives.
Stephanie Kriesberg, Psy.D.
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Stephanie Kriesberg, Psy.D. is a licensed psychologist practicing outside of Boston, Massachusetts. She is the author of the book: Adult Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers: Quiet the Critical Voce in Your Head, Heal Self-Doubt, and Live the Life You Deserve, which was published by New Harbinger in 2022 and is an Amazon best-seller.
Dr. Kriesberg strives to give the public accurate information about narcissism and its impact on others. She has been quoted in media such as Oprah.daily, Well + Good, Redbook, Newsweek, and has been a guest on multiple podcasts discussing this topic.
Dr. Kriesberg has thirty years’ experience working with children, teen, and adults. She helps people who are struggling with narcissists lead healthier, happier lives. She also specializes in the treatment of anxiety disorders and in the use of clinical hypnosis to treat anxiety and trauma. She is the president of the New England Society for Clinical Hypnosis.
Anna Shapira
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Anna is a deeply experienced and intuitive guide for those ready to heal after narcissistic abuse. She holds a profoundly healing space for you to explore and understand what has really gone on and how it’s affected you. Working alongside you she will help guide you through practices and approaches that will help heal your codependency and trauma on a deep and permanent level. She will help you remember who you really are when you’re not living in conditioning so that you will feel peace, joy and love in your life again.
Michelle Rowihab
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Michelle is a Trauma informed Certified Coach, who helps Empaths & Highly Sensitive People heal so that they can turn their pain into purpose.
Empaths & HSP’s are extremely empathetic. They have the potential to create huge change in the world, but are often held back by tendencies to want to rescue others, especially in Narcissistic relationships. This leaves them feeling depleted and disconnected from their sense of self. Michelle’s mission is to help them step into their true purpose of helping others in ways that feel fulfilling and purposeful.
Jen Woolwine
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I'm Jen, the founder of Her Healing Way and a trauma recovery coach. I focus on helping you heal from toxic families and narcissistic abuse. I believe in the power of slow living, self-care, and the healing power of animals. I'm passionate about holding space for your healing journey as you turn your pain into progress. Join me at the Reclaim You Summit to discover how to reclaim your identity and find your true self.
Hannah Alderete
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Hannah Alderete is a licensed mental health counselor with a passion for helping people recover from narcissistic abuse. Hannah has written a book specifically for those who've endured maternal narcissism, offering practical advice and support. Currently, she's working towards a PhD to deepen her understanding of this complex issue, all in her quest to help survivors heal and thrive. Her dream is simple: to empower survivors to take back their lives and find true happiness. You'll find her insightful articles on Psychology Today, where she shares valuable advice for recovery. And on her Instagram, she's built a welcoming community of survivors who are all on their journey to healing. With Hannah's expertise and genuine empathy, she's a trusted guide for those looking to reclaim their authentic selves and rebuild after narcissistic abuse.
Krylyn Peters, MC, LPC, CLC
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Krylyn is a psychotherapist, coach, educator, and consultant with a passion for helping people heal. Over her 20+ year career in mental health, she’s worked with thousands of people. One of her absolute favorite things is teaching people information and strategies for personal growth and success. She’s been blessed to provide education and training at local, state, regional, and national levels to individuals, mental health professionals, and organizations in various industries. Her expertise covers mental wellness, creativity and wellness, stress management, parental emotional abuse recovery, grief, burnout, and compassion fatigue.
Trista Overby
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Trista Overby is a Psychiatric-Mental Health Nurse Practitioner & Estranged Cycle Breaker with knowledge of Dysfunctional Family Systems & Generational Trauma. She is passionate about working with adults (Cycle Breakers) from dysfunctional families who possess the desire to heal generational trauma & do a NEW thing!
Simona Vivi H
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Globally recognized remothering expert, Simona Vivi H, is a transformational life coach specializing in healthy boundaries, self-kinder minds, and the remothering journey.
Simona guides adult daughters+ on their journeys from 'good girl' (fixer, achievement-for-love, over-caretaking, people-pleasing, perfectionism, etc) to RELIEF, healthier boundaries, breaking free from outdated programming, and thriving forward in self-alignment.
You can find Simona at CenterForRemothering.com and at reMothering.org
Sian Crossley
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Sian is a Psychotherapist and Mum of two from the UK (but currently travelling around SE Asia) Her focus is helping people understand their childhood trauma and move on from the effects. She particularly loves helping people heal their mother wound and transform the mark that has been left by the relationship with their mother.
Your host, Taylor Damiani.
Meet Taylor, Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach, and someone who has walked the path you're on right now. Growing up with a narcissistic parent, she intimately understands the confusion, self-doubt, and the relentless search for identity that can come with this kind of upbringing. Those years made her closely familiar with the profound question: "Who am I, really?" It's a question that can echo through your life like an unanswered riddle.
Taylor's passion and purpose in life are deeply rooted in helping adult children of narcissistic parents rediscover their essence and reclaim their lives after years of conditioning and codependency. Her coaching program helps people who are ready to reclaim their sense of self, peace, and purpose after being raised by narcissistic parents. She believes that healing from narcissistic abuse is not just about mending wounds; it's a profound rebirthing process. It's a journey to create who we truly are and to grow into the people we are meant to be.
Day 1
Oct 23
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Taylor welcomes us to the Reclaim You Summit.
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Most people don't fully grasp the power of their subconscious mind. In this interview, we cover understanding the subconscious mind, codependency, loss of self, and recovery of our authentic self.
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Is your mother narcissistic, borderline, or just plain difficult? Are you empathetic, sensitive, and kind? Do you feel stuck in your relationship with Mom - never feeling good enough, responsible for her emotional well-being or struggle to set boundaries without feeling guilty? If so, chances are you have fallen into one or all of the hidden psychological traps that constitute The Good Daughter Syndrome.
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Face it, we weren’t mothered the way we should have been, and that is a huge loss. But there are wonderful ways to be our own best mother and fill that gap now. You need never be alone again, because you’ve got a loving Inner Mother, and this presentation will share ways to access her at any time.
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In this conversation with Simona Vivi H, we explore the concept of ‘boundary guilt’, and we get into the boundary fundamentals that create the scaffolding for setting healthy and aligned boundaries. Towards the end of our conversation, we bring it all together with a 3-step process for how to set a boundary. Join us for this conversation about boundary fundamentals and how to break free from ‘boundaries are selfish’ conditioning.
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Many things that we think are us being fucked up in some way - are actually the result of an activated nervous system.
Do you struggle with any of these?
Social anxiety
Sleep issues
Panic attacks
Indecision
Hypervigilance
Not being able to stop and rest
Anna will help you understand:
Why so many of us who’ve been through narcissistic dynamics are living with activated nervous systems without even realising.
How to know when your nervous system is activated and the impacts of it on our mind and body.
How to start to regulate and calm your nervous system, to bring you back to sanity and peace.
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Having a narcissist in your life (parent, loved one, friend, etc.) means grieving the loss of someone who is still alive. In this talk, Taylor explores the process of facing the painful truths we never wanted to confront… and how we honor our deep pain while healing and moving forward.
*This talk is geared towards those with a narcissistic parent, but is applicable to anyone dealing with a narcissist in their life.
Day 2
Oct 24
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Ever felt trapped in a toxic family or struggled with addiction? In 'The Road to Reclaiming Me,' Jen shares her own journey to healing and self-discovery. Learn the power of setting boundaries, embrace slow living, and even discover how animals can help you heal. This talk gives you real steps to take back your life. Don't miss it if you're on a path to recovery and self-love.
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Michelle shares her thoughts on: What is an empath & highly sensitive person? Why do empaths especially find themselves in narcissistic relationships? Are all empaths codependents? What does healing from toxic relationships look like?
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Learning about NPD, knowing & honoring your story, & connecting with others is helpful but may not be sufficient for healing. CPTSD healing is a challenge & a journey; extraordinary recovery issues & tools are discussed. Renee’s passion is shortening the recovery path for others & she will share what she “wished” she knew sooner. Finally, opportunities for how to work with and/or connect with Renee are shared at the end of the presentation.
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In this conversation with Krylyn Peters, we explore the concept of self-love, what it is, and how to practice it.
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Stephanie shares how self-compassion can be a powerful healing tool for adult children of narcissistic parents.
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Join Theresa in this conversation where she will:
Explore restrictive environments that discourage authentic self-development.
Identify factors that prevent authentic self-development and/or dismantle the authentic self.
Explore the environments that prevent or dismantle the authentic self.
Explore the process of developing and reclaiming the authentic self after narcissistic abuse.
Help you discover you and the process of strengthening the authentic self.
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After a narcissistic upbringing or dynamic, we may feel as though we don’t know who we are. Why is that? And how do we find… or create our sense of self?
Day 3
Oct 25
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Mainstream boundary-setting advice does not take into account setting boundaries with a narcissist. In this presentation, Adriana will go through the 4 mistakes you need to avoid when navigating boundaries with a narcissist so you can stay grounded in reality and maintain your sanity throughout.
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Healing your inner child with hypnotherapy. Working in the subconscious mind is a powerful and deeply healing modality that helps you heal your wounded inner child and allows you to reparent yourself.
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The idea of walking away from family goes against everything that we’ve been “conditioned” to believe. However, as generations evolve & knowledge abound, more & more people are deciding to cut off contact with their toxic parents & family. The “norms” or shall I say the “myths” that have once forced families to “stick” together “NO matter what” have weakened & people are tired of wearing masks & “pretending” to be ONE big happy family.
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This presentation focuses on staying grounded during conflicts, particularly when dealing with narcissistic individuals and gaslighting. Hannah introduces the acronym "BARBD" to help navigate these situations. "BARBD" stands for Breathe, Align your spine, Respond, Set Boundaries, and Disengage. This talk will emphasize the importance of maintaining composure by deepening your breath, adopting a more aligned posture, responding thoughtfully, setting clear boundaries, and ultimately, disengaging when necessary. Hannah offers strategies to counter gaslighting, stressing the need for disengagement and provides examples of phrases to use. Overall, the presentation offers practical techniques for staying centered and confident during challenging interpersonal conflicts.
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This presentation is a breakdown of what the mother wound is, how it shows up and what you can do to heal from the effects. You’ll be taken through a 4 step process to recover from the impact of a difficult relationship with your mother. Sian has helped 100’s of therapy clients to heal their mother wound, and has done this work personally herself.
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In this session you will explore why recovering from Narcissistic System Abuse is uniquely challenging and exhausting. Recovery takes gas. If you are finding you are running on empty or wonder why you have been working overtime to heal and are getting nowhere fast, then you may be experiencing “recovery burnout.” It is possible to recover more quickly and effectively. Learn the step by step “recovery burnout” protocol that targets the depleting and damaging impacts of narcissistic trauma. If you are ready to get off the hamster wheel of healing, this session is for you.
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Details on Taylor’s talk coming soon!
How the Summit Works
Reclaim You is completely free - we want to offer this to as many people as possible. There is no commitment even if you register, you're not obligated to attend.
On Oct 23rd, 24th and 25th – that day’s presentations will be sent to your inbox @ 9am EST. Each day's presentations will be available to watch for 24 hours.
IF you want lifetime access, you can purchase the All Access Pass.
How the All Access Pass Works
Get lifetime access to 20+ presentations from experts in the field of healing after narcissistic abuse.
Perfect if you can’t make the summit or want to rewatch everything you learn!
Available for $67 until the summit ends, when it will go up to $97.
To get access to these sessions with each individual speaker would be a way bigger investment (close to $3500) - $67 is a truly incredible price for what you’ll receive.
To purchase, click the ‘get your free ticket’ button and a page will appear that will allow you to buy the pass.
Once you've purchased, you'll get an email with all the information you’ll need for your All Access Pass.
All presentations will be available as soon as the Summit begins on Oct. 23 @ 9 AM EST.